These last few weeks have been difficult. Many Americans who reside in this land we call the United States of America, don’t feel very united. My own heart and mind have been sad and confused. The USA feels unnatural to me; almost foreign. Some things are recognizable but many other things aren’t. Just when I thought I couldn’t bear to listen to one more disturbing news report, or read one more Facebook post about this nation and our government, I got a wonderful invitation that ended up being a perfect gift as I leave this country to live in another.
We met at work in 2016. Although he was originally from Mexico, he’d been living in Texas for more than a decade with a green card. He’d made his life here. His sons were born here, his career was here and his dreams of the future were here. As we grew to know each other better, I questioned this soft-spoken man about why he’d never gained his citizenship. I explained that his vote was needed. All the votes are needed to accurately represent the people of this country.
Over the next two years, with the help of our company and others, he hired an attorney and began this long process. There were meetings to attend, paperwork that had to be completed and so much WAITING. Every now and then I’d ask where he was in the process, and he’d respond that more time was needed. As time went by, and more changes were made with regard to immigrants, I was nervous that it might not materialize. I quit asking about it months ago.
I resigned from work in early June to spend time with family and friends on the west coast. I returned to Texas with only two weeks to sell my car, spend time with friends and finalize my international move. With a To-Do list a mile long, I received a text: “I have my ceremony for my naturalization of citizenship this July 19!!!!” and the text message included big, smiling emojis and a USA flag. I immediately responded to his text and quickly, within a few comments, I replied, “I would love to come.”
And so I did.
I’ve never been to a naturalization ceremony and was thrilled to be spending it with my friend and his sister. The room was filled, standing room only. Everyone was dressed so nice, many wearing the Stars and Stripes on their selected attire. Many others chose the simple colors of Red, White or Blue. Excitement was in the air. It was thrilling! Cameras were clicking non-stop.
After clearing security, he was separated from us, and was escorted into a large room with the other 100 qualified applicants. After waiting 45 minutes, the family and friends of each of the applicants, were released to take our seats in the same large room. Lucky us! We were seated across the aisle from him and were able to take photos from this vantage point.
The décor of the room, the videos, the songs and the speeches squeezed our hearts. After spending a month in beautiful California, my heart swelled at the physical beauty of this nation. Surrounded by a hundred eager faces, the visual images of our National Parks and the encouraging quotes of historical figures began to thaw my icy feelings about this country. One by one, each of the 35 country names were called out, and those from that country stood up.
Bosnia and Herzegovina
Republic of South Korea
Trinidad and Tobago
The joy of these 101 was contagious and it spread throughout the room as their names were called. There was clapping, yelling, tears and awe. The presenter mentioned that some of the 101 had been through much to get to this point, and as we all stood together, we were honored for them to join us as American citizens.
It was an amazing ceremony that left me changed. I am thankful to be an American. I did nothing to deserve it, but was simply born here and given rights and privileges that so many do not have. I feel a responsibility to teach and encourage others to dream of what is possible inside a broken world. When I arrive in my new “home” country, I will strive to be an ambassador of the United States of America, and set an example of love and truth. It will be my goal to develop empathy in my new students.
How many immigrants do you have as friends?
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Thank you so much, Liz. Please stay in touch with me!!! Keep me posted on your new school information too! Love you so much.
Great piece of writing. I am so glad that you are able to have a good, warm feeling before leaving. I know so many things are happening in the world, but that bit of happiness-I’m thrilled it was contagious and know you will treasure it in your heart and mind as you move onto your new adventure, and as those that you met will move forward in theirs. 🙂 hugs
Thank you so much, Julie. You have always been such a positive spirit to me. Always an encourager. It feels good to be proud.
Thank you for sharing this with all of us. I wish you a wonderful adventure and look forward to hearing about it! My best to you! 🙂
Dear Helen, thank you so much! It’s good to be a witness to good things happening in America, right? I’ll see you in a year! xoxo
What a beautiful story!!! Where are you moving to?
Debbie Stinson Make My Life Simplified http://www.MakeMyLifeSimplified.com 214-906-4811
Hi, Debbie! Thank you for reaching out. I have a new international art teaching job in Chennai, India and will be leaving soon.
Debbie – so you know Anita also!
Anita…………….i have attended 2 of these ceremonies and felt the same goosebumps and pride as they became American citizens. THANK you so much for taking the time to detail it in such wonderful feeling prose. In times like these, it is good to be reminded of the goodness of our country. I am missing you already, dear friend!
Sniff, sniff. I already miss you too, Susan. Thank you so much for responding. It is so encouraging. Please follow my blog if you haven’t already. Love you!